Specifically, oral sex. What does it mean to dream about oral sex, fellatio, and blow jobs? Fellatio has so many possibilities for symbolism and meaning. It can connect with subjects related to sex, but you really have to expand your mind and think in terms of symbolism and storytelling. Begin with the simplest way of describing fellatio as taking the penis into the mouth. That can mean taking in the essence or strength of a man, or taking in masculinity and making it part of you in the most personal sense.
Or it can mean talking about sex. Dreams love to create visual metaphors.
A woman dreams about giving her ex-boyfriend a blow job. Or, in different context, the same imagery could symbolize someone talking incessantly about blow jobs. Yeah, you know the guy. Oral sex and fellatio can symbolize getting intimate with a subject, situation or person. Getting to know a person intimately can be symbolized as oral sex, especially when talking is involved.
For example, during a conversation you and a friend reveal your most intimate thoughts and feelings. Then you dream that night about doing 69 with that friend. That sex position is very intimate and revealing.
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Because giving good oral sex is an art as well as a skill. It involves technique and subtle understanding of the body and pleasure. Learning a skill and artistic creativity involve technique and subtle understanding, too. Conversely, bad oral can symbolize awkwardness or lack of mastery or understanding. Using your mouth to play a musical instrument such as trumpet and flute can symbolize giving fellatio because the mouth is involved and music has many associations with sex.
Flip the analogy around and dreaming about giving fellatio can symbolize playing a musical instrument that involves the mouth. Have you noticed yet that dreams create symbolism by making comparisons? Read that lesson I just linked to. More dynamic and thorough lessons can be yours at Dream School — use the arrow to open to the courses available:. Fellatio in a dream can connect with subjects such as giving or getting pleasure, or getting comfortable with the body—oral sex requires a certain comfort level. It can connect with concerns about being a good lover.
Giving fellatio with confidence in a dream can symbolize ability to take control of a situation, including but not exclusive to sexual situations. It can mean you know what you want and how to get it.
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Oral sex in public can symbolize wanting or receiving public attention or recognition. If you dream that the attention is unwanted, it can symbolize unwanted attention or a feeling of intrusion. Taking the idea further, fellatio—whether in public or private—is associated with reward.
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It can mean breaking a routine or doing something out of the usual. Fellatio puts the giver in a position of control. Though to be clear, it can be learned simply as a strategy for getting what you want.
Oral sex can symbolize giving something with the expectation of getting something in return. For example, learning how to deal with an alcoholic parent can involve making the person think they are in control when actually their control or authority is subverted or undermined. The person in the submissive position can use submission to reverse the power dynamic, and dreams can symbolize control as being in control while giving or getting oral sex.
Because sex can be used as means of manipulation, fellatio can be associated with control through manipulation. Dreams that use the symbolism this way will sometimes be accompanied by themes of seeking freedom.
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For example, you dream that to get out of prison you have to give head to a guard. On the other hand, giving fellatio can be associated with pure submission or dominance. The symbolism is captured by the ways derogatory statements use references to fellatio. I dominate you. For example, a woman who was mercilessly bullied in high school dreams of being trapped and forced to give fellatio to one of her tormentors. She does it and bites off his dick. The scene is graphic, with blood and vomiting.
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Her tormentor just laughs, as if he expected her reaction. The dream illustrates how the dreamer is still tormented by the bullying she experienced, and she nurses thoughts of revenge. However, it only makes her relive the past and continue to experience life-wrecking emotions. A young man dreams that his girlfriend has a penis and she forces him to suck it. The dream occurs after she accuses him of being selfish about sex and an all-around awful person, psychologically beating him down, and the more aggressive she is, the more he grovels.
It makes him feel like crap about himself. Sucking her penis is a way of saying he is submissive to her. More complex psychology comes into play when you consider that fellatio in modern times has come to be associated with instant gratification. These associations can be used by dreams to symbolize situations where a person takes shortcuts, plays it safe, or makes compromises. Before the turn of the century, fellatio was associated with taking risks and breaking taboos. However, the banality of the blow job in modern Western culture has largely erased this association. Giving fellatio to multiple partners can symbolize taking on multiple subjects or tasks at once.
It is sometimes interpreted as the desire to have multiple sexual partners. For example, a gay male who recently started having sex with men dreams about eating a hot dog and finding a public hair on it, a rather obvious reference to oral sex. See also my post about the meaning of penis in dreams. It has a few examples of dreams about giving head. I hope you enjoy this post and learn from it. Talk to you later. We can stay in touch if you use the form below to give me your info.
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April 11, April 29, February 25, Dreams can be like virtual reality simulations, and if you have been trying to get comfortable with the idea of oral, a dream could create a scenario to prepare you. But oral can mean something symbolically. It can show you getting comfortable with the intimate details of a subject or idea. I had a dream I have this girl a blow job. Please tell me what it means. Hi Bob, I finally have a moment to reply to your comment. First, view the dream symbolically.